I made a strange observation this morning. As I was checking
for new hatchlings on a swans’ nest (hey, we all have our little quirks) that
rested between the boat-houses of a nearby marina, I noticed how the people who
lived in those boats did not behave like Londoners at all.
Namely, they very vocally greeted each other without
exception, engaging in short conversations afterwards. Not only each other, but
even I, a complete stranger to the place, got extended greetings and a few
words by both people who passed near me (that is, five meters away and to
meters down, as I had not descended onto the pontoon).
OK, that can be
explained by the fact that both were women and I’m an incredibly handsome man,
so maybe we’ll let that through. But I noticed that they even called people who
were some way ahead of them to make sure that they, too, got their friendly
hello.
In London.
Now, I understand that, presumably, there is a strong
selection effect, that marinas, where people live a few yards from each other
with no opaque partitions, must attract the kind of people who like to live a
few yards from each other with no opaque partitions, which presumably means
being less willing to ignore your neighbours. And being neighbours with people
who like interacting with neighbours probably leads to nicer, and in turn much
more frequent, interactions.
I still don’t think that I am quite cut for living on a
boat, at least on a permanent basis. But certainly not because of an unease
with such demonstrations of friendliness. They had a powerful appeal.
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